Rubina Dilaik recently opened up about one of the most meaningful aspects of her motherhood journey — having a strong support system that allows her to raise her children on her own terms. The actor shared how both her mother and mother-in-law have played a positive role by trusting her parenting instincts rather than interfering.
Gratitude for her mother and mother-in-law
Expressing deep gratitude, Rubina described herself as fortunate to have understanding elders in her life. In an exclusive interaction with IANS, she said she would like to offer a “Sashtang Dandwat Pranam” to both her mother and mother-in-law for their unwavering support.
She explained how her mother-in-law ensures that her parenting style remains undisturbed, while her own mother guides her in ways that benefit her children. This balance, according to Rubina, has been crucial in helping her grow as a parent.
Trust and parenting boundaries
Highlighting the importance of trust, Rubina emphasized how much it means to have elders who believe in her decisions. She shared that being trusted as a mother gives her confidence and clarity in raising her twins.
Speaking about the broader role of grandparents, Rubina stated that they should ideally support rather than interfere. She believes that grandparents should trust that their children are making the right choices for their own kids.
Life as a new mother
Rubina welcomed twin baby girls in 2024 and often shares glimpses of her life as a mother on social media with her husband, Abhinav Shukla. The couple’s posts frequently reflect their journey and joy as new parents.
Balancing work and motherhood
On the professional front, Rubina is gearing up for Khatron Ke Khiladi 15 and will soon travel to Cape Town for the shoot. She admitted that staying away from her daughters for 40 days would be emotionally challenging, especially missing their hugs and presence.
Despite this, Rubina continues to balance her personal and professional life while cherishing the support system that makes it possible.
A message for grandparents everywhere
Rubina’s message is clear: grandparents play a vital role in a child’s life, but that role should be one of support, not interference. Trusting parents to make their own decisions – even when they differ from how things were done a generation ago – creates a healthier family dynamic.
For Rubina, having a mother-in-law who respects her parenting boundaries has been a gift. She hopes more grandparents will follow that example, allowing young families to raise their children with confidence and love.
